by Peter Fox | 30 Apr, 2016 | Couple research, Ending, Relationships, Wisdom
Unhappy marriages are less common than unhappy spouses Divorce didn’t typically: reduce symptoms of depression raise self-esteem increase a sense of mastery This was true even after controlling for race, age, gender & income. Even unhappy spouses who had...
by Peter Fox | 8 Mar, 2016 | Connection, Intimacy, Relationships
I found this tragic, funny, painful and true Q&A from a blog titled Emily’s Post dated August 26th 2006 and quote it in full minus the comments section. I recommend you read another post from Emily about the conversation with her husband about their mercy...
by Peter Fox | 13 Aug, 2015 | Couple research, Ending, Fair Fighting, Mending, Mindfullness, Relationships
THE FIRST SIGN: HARSH STARTUP A relationship’s breakdown can be predicted by habitual harsh startup and frequent flooding brought on by the relentless presence of the four horsemen (described in following posts 2 & 3) during disagreements. Although each of...
by Peter Fox | 29 May, 2015 | Compassion, Relationships, Satisfaction
This video link to “The Backwards Brain Bicycle” will take you to a demonstration of how stuck our brain patterns can become after years of doing the same thing. It uses the analogy of riding a bike. If you have ever sincerely tried to change habits or...
by Peter Fox | 29 Sep, 2014 | Compassion, Connection, Forgiving, Intimacy, Mindfullness, Relationships
Responses to threats and unpleasantness are faster, stronger and harder to inhibit than responses to opportunities and pleasures. Jonathan Haidt The wimps survived Those who survived the journey out of Africa (and we are ALL their children diversified) attend to our...