by Peter Fox | 10 Nov, 2018 | Intimacy, Satisfaction, Sex
She was in the kitchen preparing to boil eggs for breakfast. He walked in; She turned and said, “You”ve got to make love to me this very moment.” His eyes lit up and he thought, “This is my lucky day.” Not wanting to lose the moment, he...
by Peter Fox | 8 Oct, 2018 | Mending, Relationships, Satisfaction, Therapy
Most couples who seek help have taken between five and seven years to get there. The usual difficulty is that one person feels overwhelmed by the issues and withdraws when it comes up. The other person feels overwhelmed by the issues and pursues them when they come...
by Peter Fox | 15 Sep, 2018 | Connection, Relationships, Satisfaction, Sex
Look Peter the basic problem is the old guys are losing their oomph and they need a younger woman’s sex drive to even get it up. They got bored in their first and second marriage and leave when something risky and hot comes along. You can dress it up anyway you...
by Peter Fox | 9 Jul, 2018 | Intimacy, Relationships, Satisfaction, Sex
I put this question to a friend the other night who I met myself on OKCupid and who is four years my senior. His response smacked me right upside the head. “Well, in my experience, women don’t tend to be as enthusiastic about sex once they reach a certain age. My...
by Peter Fox | 2 May, 2018 | Family, Infidelity, Relationships, Satisfaction
Usually this age difference is an older man with a younger woman or man. I have chosen this gap as a title because a couple with this difference are at least one generation apart. I have worked with a number of clients whose parents were a generation apart – an...
by Peter Fox | 2 Apr, 2018 | Couple research, Relationships, Satisfaction
Is it about survival? A younger spouse is likely to be less beneficial for women’s survival than for men’s survival. Having a younger spouse is usually beneficial for men but detrimental for women, while having an older spouse tends to be detrimental for both...