by Peter Fox | 1 Aug, 2019 | Connection, Relationships
No matter how you explain it, many children experience you separating from your partner as personal to them – as you leaving them. You can give them a story for their brain to remember, hope they hold on to it for example, that you will do your best to see them...
by Peter Fox | 8 Jan, 2019 | Connection, Mending, Relationships
The book that best represents emotion focussed couple therapy is “Hold Me Tight” by Sue Johnson and the workbook to go with that is “An Emotionally Focused Workbook for Couples: The Two of Us” by Veronica Kallos-Lilly and Jennifer Fitzgerald. I...
by Peter Fox | 15 Sep, 2018 | Connection, Relationships, Satisfaction, Sex
Look Peter the basic problem is the old guys are losing their oomph and they need a younger woman’s sex drive to even get it up. They got bored in their first and second marriage and leave when something risky and hot comes along. You can dress it up anyway you...
by Peter Fox | 2 Aug, 2018 | Compassion, Connection, Couple research
Long distance commuting – fly, drive or bus Is it hard being a FIFO wife? I get asked this constantly. I also get oh you poor thing being on your own all that time coping with the kids. However, my take on it is this – we love it. Most of the time. There...
by Peter Fox | 10 Feb, 2018 | Compassion, Connection, Mindfullness, Relationships
Self-compassion provides a sense of self-worth, but it’s not linked to narcissism the way self-esteem is. It’s not linked to social comparison the way self-esteem is, and it’s not contingent, because you have self-compassion both when you fail and...
by Peter Fox | 5 Dec, 2017 | Connection, Intimacy, Relationships
Quotations on: Vulnerability Where we have strong emotions, we’re liable to fool ourselves. Carl Sagan We’re never so vulnerable than when we trust someone – but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy. Walter Anderson To...